So we asked the Wevorce. From the emotional breakup of their marriage to the financial upheaval, here are some is helpful advice from people who have been through the real-life turmoil of uncoupling. Read on for the eight things no one ever tells you about divorce.

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First came love, then came marriage Next, remember your goal is to get out of court sooner rather than later. With those basics in mind, here are the five seemingly harmless mistakes most men make during the ugly process. Words can be considered threats and that could be a major blow against you in court. Tweeting your latest adventures or showing Facebook pics of the latest girl you hooked up with is great When you put something on Facebook or Twitter, it could ultimately be used against you in court. Something as innocent as hitting the town with some friends and posting photos during the divorce could hurt your case. Flaunting your new arm candy around will likely upset your former spouse and may cause her to seek the ultimate payback. How much did the ring cost?
6 Lessons I Learned From My Darkest Days of Marriage and Divorce
I try to live my life without regrets. With that, here are a few things I wish I had known before diving into the divorce process:. And we seriously wonder why our divorce rates are so high?? Getting divorced, on the other hand, is a royal pain in the ass. But here are the cliffsnotes: our government incentivizes marriage and disincentivizes divorce partially by way of having crafted laws that make it easy for couples to get legally married and painfully difficult to get divorced. See also: the U.
This post was originally published on SingleDadFitDad. I though it was very relevant to all those who read this site, so here it is…. In December, it will mark the three year anniversary since my initial separation and more than a year and a half since my divorce was made official. Some of you may already know my story, but I spent more than 8 years in a marriage that was full of struggle, stress, and heartache.