The sexual preferences of the fairer sex stretch far and wide, from the socially acceptable vanilla activities portrayed in Hollywood love stories to the dark and hidden desires only comfortably discussed in anonymous internet chat rooms. This endless variety means that anyone who claims to know exactly what every woman wants in bed is probably trying to sell you something, so I would never try. Look, I know you men have it difficult. Women are just about impossible to understand, much less, please.
Now for the sexy part
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This article is about how to satisfy a woman in bed, if you want to learn how to get a woman into your bed in the first place, check out this article: How To Pull A Girl Back To Your Place. In fact, I used to be so bad that women categorized me as nothing more than a one-night-stand. I made a lot of mistakes in the bedroom. Through years of trial-and-error, I learned from those mistakes and went from giving the sexual performance of a donkey, to that of a stallion. For many women, the idea of being desirable to a man is in itself is a turn-on.
Do you know how to have the sort of mind-blowing, orgasmic sex that women tell their friends about? On the other hand, here are some things you can expect when you know the fundamentals of great sex and how to fuck a girl the right way :. So yeah, sex is pretty damn important.
You asked: "Why do girls like sex from behind? For much of the last couple of hundred years or more, Western civilization has gravitated toward what we now call, "the missionary position". Missionary Position was reportedly the position favored as "church approved" for procreation. That is, this position fulfilled the minimum need, with limited pleasure if any on the part of the participants, since the Church viewed the only purpose of sex was to create babies for the glory of God, and to perpetuate the race for another generation -- of Catholics, in particular, to continue to be the largest percentage of the population and therefore to remain both prominent and powerful, of course. In this "missionary position" the body configuration of the female is supine position lying on her back , the male prone lying face down. That is to say, the woman is lying on her back, the man lies face down on top of her. Depending on the physical attributes of the man and woman, this is likely to include the man lying between the open thighs of the woman such that his penis is inserted into her vagina in that general position, and that stimulation of the vagina by the penis, and of the penis by contact with the interior mainly of the vagina is accomplished by a hip thrusting motion of the male, and possibly, though not necessarily, also by hip thrusting of the female. This face-to-face posture of the missionary position also allows for mutual kissing on the lips, as well as oral stimulation kissing, sucking, nibbling, biting [gently] on the neck, shoulders and upper torso chest of the partner with some cooperation of the partner positioning their body in a way that allows this kind of oral contact with their upper body. Additional stimulation through oral contact was not encouraged by the missionaries who were promoting the missionary position, this was just the comparatively easy range of motion possible in this basic configuration of bodies. Missionaries of the Church were mainly interested in maintaining dominance of their parish while promoting sex only to the extent needed to accomplish the primary goal of adequate amounts of reproduction.